I mean, I am a girl and I don’t understand myself either. Lol. But I realize that girls say 1 thing, then do another thing after what they just said to someone else. Guys do that too, but I realize that girls do that more than guys. For example, one of my friends last night told me that going out to eat with a guy who’s married is wrong. I mean, just as long as his wife and my boyfriend knows that we’re just going out to eat as FRIENDS, and they know about it, I don’t see how that’s wrong. Don’t you? Well, this married guy told me that he sees me as a little sister/girlfriend to him as well. He even told me that he wished he could of gone to the movies with me and cuddle with me. But I told him that I think me and him cuddling is wrong, cause were both taken, and we’re both with someone who truly loves us, and we love them the same way back. He agreed with me and realize that we both need to realize that we can only see each other as friends.
And about me saying that girls say one thing then do another, well, my friend did that with me actually. Cause I remember her cousin telling her that this guy has liked her for a long time, and she I guess liked him before her current boyfriend now. And ever since they started talking again, and him coming back to town, she got mixed emotions. So my friend told me that some things are left to be unsaid. She was planning on telling my bf about me and this married guy, just because I said the word, “geez.” the reason why I said that was because I felt like she was all up in my case about it. Even though I somehow knew that she was just looking out for me. After I said that, she was starting to be a total bitch to me afterward. Saying, “don’t talk like that to me,” even though all I said was “geez.” So she would tell my bf about me and this married guy, but she won’t even tell her cousins bf about this other guy her cousin used to have mixed emotions with? More like 2 face or hibercirct right?
What do you guys think?